Hatte - re: "Do you think the issue is the place where the private, family tree meets the Big Tree? Does it meet too early for some people?"
These are very valid, important questions in the working out of HOW we can best accomplish the two goals to everyone's satisfaction. However, the point I was making was simply that there were two goals, so it is wrong to make statements that indicate or state that there was only one.. (Most of my postings were trying to demonstrate the existence and equal importance of both goals. I try to challenge /correct any statements I see stating 'the goal of Geni is' or 'the goal of Geni was' because not only is it inaccurate, but I fear it majorly increases the chances that only that goal will be focused on and the other will not be met.) (The statement I was addressing was about the past, hence the use of past tense.)
HOW the two goals are met is a separate question.
Whether to meet the two goals by allowing separate trees or by having "Private trees that blend upwards into the public Big Tree" or by allowing separate views / permissions on what is seen (the ability to set Documents either Public or Private and the fact that the box for "Memories" and comments in that box are only visible to the extended family are two steps in that direction) or some completely different way or some combination of ways -- these are all part of possible solutions to HOW - a separate question from what I was trying to address!