no, "obviously " I don't, sorry Private User if I don't grant you the gift of omniscience:
it's better that you never see the kilometer-long list of my FIXES in a private direct message :D
I use discussions precisely when it has already proven useless to talk to someone directly,
so this leads to notifications that sometimes wake someone up :)
Just think that in order to remember who it's not worth talking to because it has repeatedly proven not to understand, or worse misunderstands, or even worse considers everything continuously a personal attack, or lack of the divine noble respect that is due to them..
..well I had to figure out how to put them on a block list, and the default system prevents me from writing directly to them automatically <3
(for important things there are notifications of public discussions;)