William Henry Gregory, Jr. - Are the wives correct?

FindaGrave shows the parents here and one wife--
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/75014583/william-henry-gregory
William Henry Gregory
BIRTH
22 May 1793
Chatham County, North Carolina, USA
DEATH
22 Oct 1872 (aged 79)
Hickory County, Missouri, USA
BURIAL
Gregory Cemetery
Preston, Hickory County, Missouri, USA
MEMORIAL ID
75014583 ·

Family Members
Parents

Squire William Henry Gregory
1764–1852

Martha Bledsoe Gregory
1768–1845

Spouse

Elizabeth "Betsy" McConnell Gregory
1808 – unknown (m. 1839)

3 Public trees at Ancestry show up when I try to confirm wife and parents:
William Little Bill Gregory
BIRTH1788 Chatham, North Carolina, USA DIFFERENT

DEATH1 Nov 1872 DIFFERENT Smith, Tennessee, United States

sources (9)records (7)comments (1)
Family Info
Father
John Gregory (1725–1789) NEW
Mother
Judah Judy Morgan (1735–1804) NEW
Spouse
Delilah Dillie Davis (1795–1880)
Children
Clarken Clusky (1816–1904)
William Jessie (Jabe) (1822–1889)
Bethel J. (1824–1904)
Henry Milton (1827–1926)
Nancy Susan Gregory (1830–1908)
Mazie Wright (1832–1925)
Edward B Ned (1836–1907)
Jane (1838–1850)
Spouse
Sarah Queen (1780–1828)
Married 1811
Children
Margaret (1816–1905)
Polly (1822–)
William Jesse Jab (1822–1889)
Mary (1856–)

Kemp Family Tree
Owner: Suzannebokat

William H "Little Bill" Gregory
William H "Little Bill" Gregory
BIRTH1788 Chatham, North Carolina, USA DIFFERENT

DEATH01 Nov 1872 DIFFERENT Smith Co., Tennessee

sources (6)records (5)
Family Info
Father
John Gregory (1725–1789) NEW
Mother
Judah Judy Morgan (1735–1804) NEW
Spouse
Delilah Dillie Davis (1795–1880)
Children
Clarkson Clusky (1816–1904)
William Jesse (1822–1889)
James Bethel (1824–1904)
Henry Milton (1827–1926)
Nancy Susan (1830–1908)
Mazie Wright (1832–1925)
Mary (1833–1880)
Edward (1835–1880)
Jane (1838–1850)
Spouse
Sarah Queen (1780–1828)
Married 1811
Children
Margaret (1816–1905)
Polly (1822–)

Jennings Family Tree
Owner: Sue Ann Gregory

William Henry (Little Bill) Gregory
William Henry (Little Bill) Gregory
BIRTH1788 Hillsboro, Chatham, North Carolina, USA DIFFERENT

DEATH01 Nov 1872 Peyton's Creek @ Nixon Hollow, Smith, Tennessee, USA DIFFERENT

sources (5)records (5)
Family Info
Father
John Gregory (1725–1794) NEW
Mother
Judiah (JudeJudaJudy) Morgan (1744–1804) NEW
Spouse
Delilah (Dillie) Davis (1795–1880)
Married 1816
Children
Clarken Mable (Clarkie) (1816–1904)
William Jesse (Jabe) (1822–1889)
Bethel Jabe (Gid) (1824–1904)
Henry Milton (1827–1926)
Nancy Susan (1830–1908)
Mazie Wright (1832–1925)
Mary Ann (1833–)
Edward B (Ned) (1836–1907)
Jane Adaline (1838–1850)

COMMENT on this one https://www.ancestry.com/family-tree/person/tree/45899376/person/24...:

LarryFrancis42
9 years ago
This William Henry Gregory, who was born 1788 in NC, is not husband of Sarah H. Queen.: William Henry Gregory, who was born 1788 in North Carolina and died 1872 in Tennessee, IS NOT THE

HUSBAND of Sarah H Queen B: abt 1791 D: bef 1870. Analysis of the census from 1820 thru 1870

indicates that William Henry Gregory was in either North Caroline or Tennessee, BUT NOT IN Harrison

Co, (West) Virginia. It appears that someone connected William Henry Gregory to Sarah H. Queen

without good anlysis, and others copied this incorrect connection, which is a dis-service to other

doing research on the Queen Family. It is noted that their were several William Gregory's in the

early census in many places.
+++++++
From the "Queen Family History" by Sterling Post Queen
Descendants of Sarah Queen Gregory
Sarah Queen, a daughter of Charles Queen Jr and Miss May (Haley) Queen, was born in 1791 into the

first generation of the Queen famiy and married William Gregory on Feb 15, 1811. To this marriage

were born six children into the second generation of the Queen Family, namely:
Margaret, Elizabeth, James, John, William and Polly Gregory.
No records show that William Gregory who married Sarah H. Queen, was name William Henry Gregory;

just because a son is named William Henry Gregory does not mean that his father was William

Henry.1850 Census of Harrison and Lewis Cos, (W)VA does not show William Gregory, which would

indicate that he died before 1850. His wife is in the 1860 census -- GREGORY SARAH 70 F W VA

VA UPSHUR BUCKHANNON P O 1860 with son, James - 40 - shown as Idiot. Not found in the 1870

census, therefore must have died before 1870 (one source give 1866, however no death record found).

William Gregory and Sarah H (Queen) son william, identified as William Henry Gregroy B: abt 1834

(W)VA (not Tennessee) married Elizabeth Ann Simmons/Simon B: abt 1831 on 10 Jan 1853 Upshur Co,

(W)VA.
NOTE: Census Mortality Schedules Index for 1870 shows Sarah died in 1870.

Elizabeth Isabelle Gregory
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/75014825/elizabeth_gregory was previously married to "David McConnell in either Indiana or Scott Co, ILL. David died around 1833 and she then married William Henry Gregory."

He is seen as this man:
William Gregory
son of John Gregory and Judiah Gregory

William Gregory
Gender: Male
Birth: circa 1788
Chatham, North Carolina, USA
Death: November 01, 1872 (79-88)
Smith, Tennessee, USA
Immediate Family:
Son of John Gregory and Judiah Gregory (Morgan)
Brother of Linda Gregory; Jeremiah Gregory; Major Gregory, Sr.; John Joseph Gregory and Hubbard Gregory

https://www.geni.com/path/William-Gregory-Jr+is+related+to+William-...

William Gregory is William Henry Gregory, Jr.'s first cousin once removed.
William Henry Gregory, Jr.
→ William Henry “Squire Bill” Gregory
his father → Thomas Gregory, Sr.
his father → John Gregory
his brother → William Gregory
his son

Would not be the first time FIRST cousins were conflated

Will need help! It looks like one of the William may have the other's wife?