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Abigail Anne Folger

Also Known As: "Gibby Folger"
Birthplace: San Francisco, California, United States
Death: August 09, 1969 (25)
Beverly Hills, Los Angeles County, California, United States (Assassination by Manson gang )
Place of Burial: Colma, San Mateo County, California, United States
Immediate Family:

Daughter of Peter Folger, Sr. and Ines Folger
Fiancée of Voytek Frykowski
Sister of Private
Half sister of Private

Occupation: Social worker, coffee heiress
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About Abigail Anne Folger



Abigail Anne "Gibbie" Folger (August 11, 1943 – August 9, 1969) was an American coffee heiress, debutante, socialite, volunteer, civil rights devotee and member of the prominent United States Folger family. She was the great-granddaughter of J. A. Folger, the founder of Folgers Coffee. In 1969 she was murdered by the Manson Family.

Folger was born in San Francisco, California. Her parents were Peter Folger, Chairman and President of the Folger Coffee Company, and Ines "Pui" Mejia (June 25, 1907 – July 15, 2007), the youngest child of Gertrude and Encarnacion Mejia, a consul general of El Salvador. Her Roman Catholic parents divorced in 1952 when she was still young, after her mother ended the marriage on the grounds of extreme cruelty. In 1960, her father married again, this time to his 24-year-old private secretary, Beverly Mater, who was already pregnant with his youngest daughter, Elizabeth, born in January 1961.

Growing up in San Francisco, Folger was raised in the closed tradition of San Francisco society[clarification needed]. As a young girl she was interested in art, books, poetry and playing the piano. Close friends and family called her 'Gibbie'.

Folger attended Santa Catalina School in Monterey, California, near Carmel. She graduated with honors in June 1961. She then matriculated at Radcliffe College in Cambridge, Massachusetts in the fall of 1961. During her stay at Radcliffe she became an active member of the college's Gilbert and Sullivan Players, a musical theatre group. She starred in two of its productions, starting with The Sorcerer in April 1963 where she played the part of one of the town's villagers. In December 1963 she starred in The Gondoliers as one of the Contadine. She graduated with honors from Radcliffe College in 1964.

While a freshman in college, Folger became a debutante on December 21, 1961 at the St. Francis Hotel in San Francisco, where she made her official debut into San Francisco's high society. Her debutante ball was one of the highlights of the social season, with Folger wearing a bright yellow Christian Dior gown that she had purchased in Paris the previous summer.

After graduating from Radcliffe, she enrolled in the fall of 1964 at Harvard University, also in Cambridge, where she did graduate work and received a degree in Art History. After graduating in the spring of 1967, Folger took a job at the University of California Art Museum in Berkeley, California as a publicity director. While employed there, her main job was to organize the fine art museum council.

In September 1967, Folger decided to move away from California in order to find herself and to probe the other side of life. She soon made the move to New York City, where she got a job working for a magazine publisher. She eventually left for a job at the Gotham Book Mart on 47th Street. While living in New York, she lived well below her means. As the daughter of an incredibly wealthy family, Folger's annual income from her inheritances, after taxes, was $130,000 a year (the equivalent of $838,193 a year in 2009 dollars).

It was at a bookstore party in December 1967 where she met Polish author Jerzy Kosinski, who was married to American steel heiress Mary Hayward Weir. Weir ran in the same wealthy circle as Folger, and it was she who introduced Kosinski to Folger. In early January 1968, Kosinski introduced Folger to his friend, aspiring writer Wojciech Frykowski, at a party and the two hit it off. Frykowski had been living in the United States for one month at the time.

Folger and Wojciech

Wojciech Frykowski was not then fluent in English, but, like Folger, he was fluent in French. She gave him a tour of New York, began to teach him English, and they fell in love. He moved into her New York City apartment and she supported him financially.

In August 1968, both Folger and Frykowski decided to move to Los Angeles, California. He wanted to pursue his writing career while Folger wanted to get involved with a new welfare project that was currently under way. She rented a car, and she and Frykowski drove across the country.

In Los Angeles, she found a two-story hilltop home to rent at 2774 Woodstock Road for her and Wojciech in Laurel Canyon, and bought a 1968 yellow Firebird. Their neighbor across the road was singer Cass Elliot of the rock group The Mamas & the Papas, whom the couple quickly befriended. Through Frykowski, she met Roman Polanski and his wife, Sharon Tate. Through the Polanskis, Folger and Frykowski were introduced to Jay Sebring. The five quickly began to hang out together and were known to be a part of 'the beautiful people crowd' in Hollywood. In a 2006 interview for the History Channel show Our Generation: Death of the Counterculture, Michelle Phillips, also of The Mamas & the Papas, said that she was very good friends with all of the Tate murder victims (presumably excluding Steven Parent) and that it was still hard to talk about the murders.

Like her mother, Ines, who was active doing charity work with the Haight-Ashbury Free Medical Clinic in San Francisco, Folger continued to be involved with volunteer work. She registered as a volunteer for the Los Angeles County Welfare Department in September 1968. Earlier, in the spring and summer of 1968, she attended fundraisers set up by her mother to aid the Haight-Ashbury Free Medical Clinic. It was around the same time many of the Manson family women were being treated there. Back in Los Angeles, Folger spent long days in the ghettos doing her job as a volunteer with children, waking up at dawn each day.

On March 15, 1969, Folger, Sebring, and Frykowski attended the catered housewarming party of the Polanskis at 10050 Cielo Drive. Over one hundred guests, such as Jane Fonda, Roger Vadim, Peter Fonda, Tony Curtis, Warren Beatty, Nancy Sinatra, Michael Sarne, Michelle Phillips, John Phillips, and Cass Elliot, attended. The next day, Polanski left for London to begin work on a new film.

Meanwhile, Folger's work as a volunteer soon began to take a toll on her and she became depressed.

On March 23, 1969, an odd incident occurred at 10050 Cielo Drive. That afternoon, Folger and Frykowski went over to the Polanskis' home for a going away dinner party for Tate, who was leaving for Rome the next day. Sebring was there, as well as Tate's friend Shahrokh Hatami, an Iranian photographer. Rudi Altobelli, the owner of the Cielo home, had attended the party briefly, but soon returned to his guest house to pack for his upcoming trip to Europe. The incident involved a strange-looking man who had appeared on the property as the occupants of the house sat in the dining room, which faced the front of the residence. Hatami felt uneasy about this stranger roaming the Polanski estate, so he left the house to confront the man. From the front porch, the party inside could be seen through the large dining room windows. Hatami asked the stranger if he could help him. The stranger said he was looking for someone by the name of Terry Melcher, a name Hatami did not recognize. Hatami made it clear to the stranger that this was the Polanski residence, and suggested that perhaps the person he was looking for lived in the guest house. Later, this stranger was identified as Charles Manson.

From April to May 1968, Folger became a political volunteer for the ill-fated presidential campaign of New York Senator Robert F. Kennedy. She donated both time and money to the Kennedy campaign. The campaign soon came to an end when Kennedy was assassinated in Los Angeles in early June.

The next year during the month of April and continuing through most of May, she was a political volunteer for the campaign of Tom Bradley, a black councilman running for mayor of Los Angeles. She contributed both her time and a large amount of her own money to the Bradley campaign. Bradley lost to Sam Yorty in late May, which left Folger feeling bitter and disillusioned. This led her to become very involved with the civil rights movement that summer.

10050 Cielo Drive

On April 1, 1969, while Roman Polanski was away in Europe filming movies, Folger and Frykowski moved into the Polanskis' Cielo Drive home in Benedict Canyon, at Polanski's request. At the same time, their Woodstock Road home was being occupied by Wojciech's friend, Polish artist Witold-K, who had arrived in the United States the previous December. A day earlier, Folger had quit her job as a volunteer.

In May 1969, Folger and her mother attended the San Francisco opening of Jay Sebring's newest shop at 629 Commercial Street. Folger enjoyed the champagne reception and found herself mingling with such guests as Paul Newman, Joanne Woodward, Doris Tate, and her husband Paul Tate (Sharon's parents).

On July 8, 1969, Folger and Frykowski learned that Sharon Tate would be returning to the U.S. later that month. The couple then began to move most of their clothing from Cielo Drive back to their own home on Woodstock Road. They informed Wojciech's friend, Witold-K, that they would be soon returning to live in their home after Tate's arrival.

On July 20, 1969, Tate returned to California from London and asked Abigail and Wojciech to remain at 10050 Cielo Drive with her until her husband Roman Polanski arrived on August 12. Folger, Frykowski, Tate and Sebring, along with Tate's parents and two younger sisters, all watched the moon landing on television.

On August 6, 1969 film director Michael Sarne invited Folger, Frykowski and Tate over for a dinner party at his rented Malibu beach house. After dessert had been served, Tate began to feel unwell, so it was decided that Folger and Frykowski would drive her home.


On August 8, 1969, Folger and Frykowski ran some errands together. Folger purchased a yellow, lightweight bicycle around 2 p.m. from a shop on Santa Monica Boulevard and arranged for it to be delivered to Cielo Drive later that afternoon. She and Wojciech then drove back to the Polanski home and had a late lunch with Tate and her friends, Joanna Pettet and Barbara Lewis, on the front lawn patio. The late lunch was served to the party of five by Winifred Chapman, the Polanskis' housekeeper. Shortly after, at around 3:45 p.m., Folger left Cielo Drive in her Firebird in order to keep an appointment she had later that afternoon. Frykowski left minutes later, in Tate's rented 1969 red Camaro, to unload a box at the couple's Woodstock Road home.

That evening, just after 9 p.m., Folger, Frykowski, Jay Sebring, and Sharon Tate went out to a Mexican restaurant called El Coyote. Returning home, Frykowski fell asleep on the couch while Folger was in her room reading. Her mother called her at 10 p.m. that night to verify their weekend plans. She was scheduled to fly to San Francisco at 10 a.m. Saturday morning on United Airlines in order to celebrate her birthday. Her mother was to join her later, as she was coming in from Connecticut after spending time with friends.

Manson's followers broke into the house in the early morning hours of August 9, 1969. When one of them (Susan Atkins) passed Folger's bedroom door, Folger, believing the woman was a friend of the Polanskis, waved and smiled at the intruder. Susan then proceeded to pass by Sharon Tate's bedroom, where Sharon and Jay Sebring were talking in hushed tones. After tying up Wojciech's hands with a towel, Susan went to round up Folger, Sharon, and Jay, ordering them into the living room, near the fireplace. Susan then asked if any of them had any money. Folger responded that she did and was led to her bedroom to empty her purse. One of the captives then asked what was going to happen, to which Charles "Tex" Watson, the leader of the group, replied: "You are all going to die!". At this point they pleaded for their lives, but to no avail. Tex began to tie up Jay's wrists with a piece of rope. Tex then placed the rope around Jay's neck prior to tossing the end over one of the ceiling beams, with Sharon's neck placed in the other end. As the tension mounted, Tex tied up Folger's hands with a section of rope that bound Sharon's neck. Tex then tied the rope around Jay's neck, and after tugging on it, Sharon and Folger were forced to stand on their toes to avoid being choked. Finally, Tex ordered all four captives to lie face down. Jay protested to Tex, pleading how Sharon was 9 months pregnant. Tex, armed with a Buntline revolver, shot Jay twice.

Folger, who had managed to loosen the rope that bound her wrists and free her hands, was engaged in a desperate fight for life with (Patricia Krenwinkel), known as "Katie" and a devout follower of Charles Manson. Patricia, who was struggling with Folger, cried out for help as she was unable to subdue Folger on her own. In the meantime, Folger escaped and made her break for freedom, but Tex, armed with a buck knife, slashed her in the midsection. Folger clutched her stomach and stumbled out of the house, leaving a trail of blood. After falling down on the lawn, Folger was quickly overtaken by Katie. Wielding a knife herself, Patricia viciously stabbed away at Folger. As Patricia continued the attack, Tex approached the mortally wounded Folger to finish her off. After dispatching with Folger, Tex rejoined Susan inside the house. Now Sharon was at the mercy of Susan and Tex. Wojciech fled the residence himself, but was also tracked down by the killers.

When investigators were called in the following morning, the scene of carnage which greeted them was unlike anything they had ever witnessed. Sharon and her unborn baby had been stabbed 16 times. Jay had been shot twice and bludgeoned to death. And on the lawn lay the lifeless bodies of Folger and Wojciech, separated by just a few feet. Folger had been stabbed 28 times and died from a stab wound to the aorta. Wojciech, who had fought hard for his life, had been shot twice and stabbed a total of 51 times. Allegedly, Folger's dying words were, "You can stop now; I'm already dead." Although coroners found a large amount of the drug MDA in her system, they reached the conclusion that she was fully aware of what was happening when the attack occurred.

Folger's body was returned to San Francisco and taken to Crippen and Flynn Mortuary in Redwood City. Her funeral was held on the morning of August 13, 1969, at Our Lady of the Wayside Church in Portola Valley, a church that had been built by her grandparents, the Mejias, in 1912. Following a Catholic requiem mass, Folger was entombed at Holy Cross Cemetery in Colma, California. (Main Mausoleum, Hallway N)

After her death, investigators reported that Folger's estate was worth $530,000. She left no will.

Folger was survived by her parents, Peter and Ines, her brother, Peter, then 24, and sister, Elizabeth, then 8.

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Birth: Aug. 11, 1943 San Francisco San Francisco County California, USA

Death: Aug. 9, 1969 Los Angeles Los Angeles County California, USA

Coffee Heiress, Manson Family Murder Victim. Abigail Anne Folger was born to Peter Folger, then chairman of the Folger Coffee Company, and Inez Mejia in San Francisco, California. Her parents divorced in the early-1950s and her father married again and had two sons. She attended the Catalina School for Girls in Carmel, California, graduated from Radcliffe College with honors, and received a graduate degree in Art History from Harvard (writing her senior thesis on the politics in the plays of Christopher Marlowe). She worked a series of jobs in art galleries, book stores, and magazine publishers in New York City. It was at a bookstore party that she met Polish author Jerzy Kosinski who eventually introduced her to newly arrived immigrant, Wojciech "Voytek" Frykowski. Frykowski had poor command of English so he and Abigail communicated with each other in French (Frykowski becoming fluent in the language during his time in Paris). Abigail showed him around New York, helping him with his English and teaching him American customs (which he dutifully jotted down in his notebook). In 1968, they moved from New York to Woodstock Road, renting a home from "Mama" Cass Elliot of the Mamas and the Papas. During this time, Abigail became a volunteer social worker and gave freely of her time to the Haight-Ashbury Medical Clinic in her native San Francisco, the Los Angeles County Welfare Department, among other organizations. She felt the plight of the poor people so deeply that she eventually had to quit because she felt she wasn't doing enough to help them. By mid-1969, they moved into the house rented by the Polanski's to house sit for them. Roman and Sharon Tate went to Europe to begin working on separate film projects when the tension between the two intensified. Abigail told close friends and her psychiatrist that she was intent on leaving Voytek for good. Drugs were reportedly at the center of the tension. In the summer of 1969, Abigail helped finance hairstylist Jay Sebring's new salon in San Francisco. On the night of August 8, 1969, Jay Sebring took Sharon, Abigail and Wojciech to dinner at a Mexican restaurant, El Coyote. When the four returned to Cielo Drive, Voytek sat on the living room couch, Abigail went to her bedroom to read a book and Sharon and Jay went to the master bedroom to talk. Abigail thought one of the killers was a friend and, looking up from her book, smiled and waved to her. She would fight hard for her life before finally pleading to them, "I'm already dead." (bio by: Donna Di Giacomo)

Family links:

  • Peter Folger (1905 - 1980)
  • Ines Mejia Folger (1907 - 2007)

Burial: Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery Colma San Mateo County California, USA Plot: Main Mausoleum, Hallway N, Grave 205 GPS (lat/lon): 37.67307, -122.44296

Maintained by: Find A Grave Record added: Jan 01, 2001 Find A Grave Memorial# 1249

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Abigail Anne Folger's Timeline

August 11, 1943
San Francisco, California, United States
August 9, 1969
Age 25
Beverly Hills, Los Angeles County, California, United States
August 13, 1969
Age 25
Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery (Plot: Main Mausoleum Hallway N Grave 205 GPS (lat/lon): 37.67307 -122.44296), Colma, San Mateo County, California, United States