

Family
Sir Henry was the son of Richard de Grey (born Thurrock, Essex, c. 1140 and married c. 1157 [Wikipedia is not trustworthy on birth date or place]) and probably a great-grandson of Anchetil de Greye of Rotherfield Greys in Oxfordshire. He is the common ancestor of innumerable members of the British aristocracy, and was the progenitor of a considerable number of noble houses bearing the surname Grey or Gray; Sir Henry's descendants in the direct male line went on to be ennobled with no less than eighteen peerages, including eleven substantive baronies, a viscountcy, three earldoms (Kent, Tankerville and Grey), a marquessate and two dukedoms. Furthermore, through marriage Sir Henry's descendants in the female line exist in all ranks of the British aristocracy, and are countless but include the Barons Audley, Barons Revelstoke, Barons Northbrook, Barons Howick, Barons Dacre, Barons Willoughby de Eresby, Earl of Lindsey, the Earls of Malmesbury, Earls of Westmoreland, Earls of Essex, Earls of Durham, Earls of Cromer, Earls of Elgin, Earls of Bridgewater, the Earls of Ashburnham, the Marquesses of Lindsey and the Dukes of Somerset and Ancaster, amongst many others.
Life
In 1195 he had been granted the Manor of Thurrock in Essex which later became known as Grays Thurrock (or simply Grays), which he bought from Isaac the Jew and his son Josce. To commemorate this connection, on 11 June 2013 (the 808th anniversary of the charter), a green Thurrock heritage plaque was unveiled to de Grey.[1] Before 1201 he was also granted the Manor of Codnor, Derbyshire, and in 1216 was also granted by King Henry III of England the Manor of Grimston in Nottinghamshire.
Marriage and issue
Around 1199 he married at Thurrock, Essex, Isolda Bardolf (Hoo, Kent, c. 1168 - bef. 18 June 1246), also known as Iseaude, sister and co-heiress of Robert Bardolf of Codnor in Derbyshire, and daughter of Hugh or Robert Bardolf of Codnor, Derbyshire (son of Hugo Bardol, born in 1125), and Isobel Aquillion, by whom he had these sons:
After his death his widow remarried Reynold de Meurdre.
Sources
L. G. Pine, The New Extinct Peerage 1884-1971: Containing Extinct, Abeyant, Dormant and Suspended Peerages With Genealogies and Arms (London, U.K.: Heraldry Today, 1972), p. 136. Charles Mosley, editor, Burke's Peerage, Baronetage & Knightage, 107th edition, 3 volumes (Wilmington, Delaware, U.S.A.: Burke's Peerage (Genealogical Books) Ltd, 2003), volume 2, p. 1665. G.E. Cokayne; with Vicary Gibbs, H.A. Doubleday, Geoffrey H. White, Duncan Warrand and Lord Howard de Walden, editors, The Complete Peerage of England, Scotland, Ireland, Great Britain and the United Kingdom, Extant, Extinct or Dormant, new ed., 13 volumes in 14 (1910-1959; reprint in 6 volumes, Gloucester, U.K.: Alan Sutton Publishing, 2000), volume II, p. 89
Notes
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1. HENRY de Grey of Grays Thurrock, Essex (-1219). m as her first husband, ISOLDA, daughter of --- (-after 1 Jul 1225). There are contrary indications concerning the parentage of Isolda. “Jord Foliot Isold de Gray et Rad Paynel” swore homage for the lands of “Robti Bardulf avunculi sui”, and accepted security from “Robto Lupo loco Matild Bardulf matris sue que est una herederum predicti Roberti”, dated 1 Jul 1225[1384]. This source suggests that Isolda de Grey was the daughter of the second sister of Robert Bardulf, and co-heir of her uncle. On the other hand, Thomas Stapleton, in his "Observations on the Great Rolls of the Exchequer of Normandy", records that Henry de Grey married "Ysolda...daughter of Hugh Bardolf, sister and one of the co-heirs of Robert Bardolf", that in 1235 she was “remarried to...Reginald de Meandre”, and that in 1246 “Richard de Gray son and heir of Isolda de Gray” swore homage to King Henry III, although he does not cite the source reference[1385]. The birth date of Hugh [I] Bardolf (father of Robert Bardolf) is estimated to before 1135 (see above). Hugh’s children would presumably therefore have been born in [1160/80]. If that date range is correct, the date of Isolda’s second marriage, and also the chronology of the Grey family, suggest that Isolda was more probably Hugh’s granddaughter than his daughter. Another possibility is that the wife of Henry de Grey was Robert’s sister and that “Isold de Gray” who is named in the 1 Jul 1225 source was the couple’s daughter. However, in that case, it is unclear why Isolda’s son Richard would not have been named as the Grey representative of the heirs who are named in 1 Jul 1225.
On balance, it appears more likely that Isolda was Robert Bardolf’s niece, although if that is correct there is no indication of her father’s family. She married secondly (before 1235) Reginald de Meaudre. Henry & his wife had children:
a) RICHARD de Grey of Codnor (-after 1246). Thomas Stapleton, in his "Observations on the Great Rolls of the Exchequer of Normandy", records that in 1246 “Richard de Gray son and heir of Isolda de Gray” swore homage to King Henry III, but he does not cite the source reference[1386]. This reference, if correct, suggests that Richard was his parents’ oldest son. m LUCY de Humez, daughter of JOHN de Humez & his wife ---. Richard & his wife had children:
i) JOHN de Grey ). - LORDS GREY (of CODNOR).
b) JOHN de Grey of Shirland, Derbyshire (-before 18 Mar 1266).
m firstly EMMA de Glanville, daughter of GEOFFREY de Glanville & his wife ---.
m secondly (after 2 Nov 1230) as her second husband, EMMA de Cauz, widow of JOHN de Segrave, daughter of ROGER de Cauz & his wife ---. Bracton records a claim, dated 1229, which involved "Johannem de Segraue et Emmam uxorem eius filiam et heredem…Rogeri de Cauz"[1387]. King Henry III granted "maritagium Emme de Cauz que fuit uxor Johannis de Sedgrave, filii ipsius Stephani" to "Stephano de Sedgrave" dated 2 Nov 1230[1388].
m thirdly (17 Oct 1251) as her second husband, JOAN, widow of PAUL Peyvre or Piper, daughter of --- (-1256, bur Woburn).
John & his first wife had two children:
i) REYNOLD de Grey .
ii) EMMA de Grey . m WILLIAM de Huntingfield, son of ---.
John & his second wife had one child:
iii) REYNOLD de Grey of Ruthin, Denbighshire, and Wilton, Herefordshire (-5 Apr 1308). He was summoned to Parliament whereby he is held to have become Lord Grey (of Wilton). m MATILDA de Longchamp, daughter of HENRY de Longchamp of Wilton, Herefordshire & his wife --- (-before 21 Nov 1302). Reynold & his wife had children:
(1) JOHN de Grey of Wilton ([1267/68]-28 Oct 1323). Lord Grey (of Wilton).
- LORDS GREY (of WILTON).
c) WILLIAM de Grey of Sandiacre . m ---. William & his wife had children:
i) RICHARD de Grey of Sandiacre (-1298). m LUCY, daughter of ---. Richard & his wife had children:
(1) WILLIAM de Grey of Sandiacre . m JOAN, daughter of ---. William & his wife had children:
(a) RICHARD de Grey of Sandiacre (-1310). m FELICIA, daughter of ---. Richard & his wife had children:
(i) WILLIAM de Grey of Sandiacre .
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LORDS GREY (of ROTHERFIELD)
Two brothers:
1. WALTER de Grey . Archbishop of York.
2. ROBERT de Grey of Rotherfield, Oxfordshire . m ---. Robert & his wife had children:
a) WALTER de Grey of Rotherfield . m ISABEL de Duston, daughter of WILLIAM de Duston of Duston, Northamptonshire & his wife ---.
i) ROBERT de Grey (-before 27 May 1295). m JOAN de Valoignes, daughter of THOMAS de Valoignes & his wife --- (-before 12 Nov 1312). Robert & his wife had children:
(1) JOHN de Grey (-1311). - see below.
(2) JOAN Grey (Rotherfield [20] Jul 1386-20 Nov 1408). m (before 17 Feb 1401) JOHN Deincourt Lord Deincourt, son of WILLIAM Deincourt Lord Deincourt & his wife Alice Neville (Middleham, Yorkshire 28 Feb 1382-11 May 1406).
JOHN de Grey of Rotherfield, son of ROBERT de Grey of Rotherfield & his wife Joan --- (-1311). m MARGARET de Oddingeseles, daughter of WILLIAM de Oddingeseles of Solihull and Maxstoke, Warwickshire & his wife Ela ---.
John & his wife had children:
1. JOHN de Grey of Rotherfield (-Rotherfield 1 Sep 1359). He was summoned to Parliament in 1338 whereby he is held to have become Lord Grey (of Rotherfield). m firstly CATHERINE FitzAlan, daughter of BRIAN FitzAlan Lord FitzAlan & his second wife Maud ---. m secondly AVICE Marmion, daughter of JOHN Marmion Lord Marmion & his wife --- (-20 Mar 1379). John & his first wife had children:
a) JOHN de Grey (-4 Jun 1375). Lord Grey (of Rotherfield). m MAUD, daughter of ---. The Complete Peerage states that she was “possibly da. of Bartholomew de Burghersh the elder Lord Burghersh”[1408]. John & his wife had children:
i) BARTHOLOMEW de Grey ([1351]-12 Nov 1375). Lord Grey (of Rotherfield). m PHILIPPA, daughter of ---.
ii) ROBERT de Grey (-12 or 14 Jan 1388). Lord Grey (of Rotherfield). m firstly JOAN, daughter of ---. m secondly as her second husband, ELIZABETH de la Plaunche, widow of JOHN de Bermingham, daughter of WILLIAM de la Plainche of Haversham, Buckinghamshire & his wife Elizabeth Hillary (-1423). She married thirdly (before 24 Oct 1388) John de Clinton, Lord Clinton. She married fourthly (after Sep 1398) John Russell. Robert & his first wife had one child:
(1) JOAN de Grey (Rotherfield [30] Jul 1386-20 Nov 1408). m (before 17 Feb 1401) JOHN Deincourt Lord Deincourt, son of WILLIAM Deincourt Lord Deincourt & his wife Alice Neville (Middleham, Yorkshire 28 Feb 1382-11 May 1406).
iii) MAUD de Grey . m JOHN Botetourt, son of JOHN Botetourt Lord Botetourt & his second wife Joyce Zouche (-1369).
b) MAUD de Grey . m as his first wife, JOHN Botetourt Lord Botetourt, son of THOMAS Botetourt & his wife Joan de Somery ([1317/18]-1385, bur Halesowen).
This Henry de Grey is NOT mentioned with Greys of Rotherfield,above, therefore NOT father of Walter de Grey, Archbishop of York -Relationship removed.
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poss. aka de GRESTUN; Baron of CODNOR (Condor; Codner); aka Henry GREY of Grays Thurrock (Thurock)
Born: Devons. abt. 1178 (or '61?) Died: abt. 1220
Poss. HM George I's 16-Great Grandfather. Poss. HRE Charles VI's 14-Great Grandfather. Poss. U.S. President's 16-Great Grandfather. Poss. PM Churchill's 20-Great Grandfather. Poss. Lady Diana's 21-Great Grandfather. Poss. HRH Albert II's 23-Great Grandfather. Poss. Osawatomie' Brown's 19-Great Grandfather. Poss. my 23-Great Grandfather.
poss. Wives/Partners: Isolda (Iseulde) de BARDOLF (BARDOLPH) ; Hawise de GREY
Child: Walter (Archbishop of York) Possible Children: John (Sir; of Shirland) de GREY ; Hugh (Sir; of Chillingham) de GREY ; Robert de GREY ; Richard (de) GREY ; William of LANFORD ; William de GREY
Alternative Fathers of Possible Children: poss. Henry de GREY [alt ped] ; prob. not William (Henry's son)
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Different years of birth Cited:
Granted the manor of Thurrock (afterwards Grays Thurrock) by Richard I circa 1195, and acquired Codnor by marriage a few years later.
HENRY de Grey of Grays Thurrock, Essex (-1219). m as her first husband, ISOLDA, daughter of --- (-after 1 Jul 1225). There are contrary indications concerning the parentage of Isolda. “Jord Foliot Isold de Gray et Rad Paynel” swore homage for the lands of “Robti Bardulf avunculi sui”, and accepted security from “Robto Lupo loco Matild Bardulf matris sue que est una herederum predicti Roberti”, dated 1 Jul 1225[1448]. This source suggests that Isolda de Grey was the daughter of the second sister of Robert Bardulf, and co-heir of her uncle. On the other hand, Thomas Stapleton, in his "Observations on the Great Rolls of the Exchequer of Normandy", records that Henry de Grey married "Ysolda...daughter of Hugh Bardolf, sister and one of the co-heirs of Robert Bardolf", that in 1235 she was “remarried to...Reginald de Meandre”, and that in 1246 “Richard de Gray son and heir of Isolda de Gray” swore homage to King Henry III, although he does not cite the source reference[1449]. The birth date of Hugh [I] Bardolf (father of Robert Bardolf) is estimated to before 1135 (see above). Hugh’s children would presumably therefore have been born in [1160/80]. If that date range is correct, the date of Isolda’s second marriage, and also the chronology of the Grey family, suggest that Isolda was more probably Hugh’s granddaughter than his daughter. Another possibility is that the wife of Henry de Grey was Robert’s sister and that “Isold de Gray” who is named in the 1 Jul 1225 source was the couple’s daughter. However, in that case, it is unclear why Isolda’s son Richard would not have been named as the Grey representative of the heirs who are named in 1 Jul 1225. On balance, it appears more likely that Isolda was Robert Bardolf’s niece, although if that is correct there is no indication of her father’s family. She married secondly (before 1235) Reginald de Meaudre. Henry & his wife had children:
This reconstruction is somewhat speculative, based on the tradition that Henry de Grey of Codnor's father was a Richard de Grey.
http://www.codnorcastle.co.uk/history.html
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Henry_de_Grey
Sir Henry was the son of Richard de Grey (born Thurrock, Essex, c. 1140 and married c. 1157 [Wikipedia is not trustworthy on birth date or place]) and probably a great-grandson of Anchetil de Greye of Rotherfield Greys in Oxfordshire. He is the common ancestor of innumerable members of the British aristocracy, and was the progenitor of a considerable number of noble houses bearing the surname Grey or Gray; Sir Henry's descendants in the direct male line went on to be ennobled with no less than eighteen peerages, including eleven substantive baronies, a viscountcy, three earldoms (Kent, Tankerville and Grey), a marquessate and two dukedoms. Furthermore, through marriage Sir Henry's descendants in the female line exist in all ranks of the British aristocracy, and are countless but include the Barons Audley, Barons Revelstoke, Barons Northbrook, Barons Howick, Barons Dacre, Barons Willoughby de Eresby, Earl of Lindsey, the Earls of Malmesbury, Earls of Westmoreland, Earls of Essex, Earls of Durham, Earls of Cromer, Earls of Elgin, Earls of Bridgewater, the Earls of Ashburnham, the Marquesses of Lindsey and the Dukes of Somerset and Ancaster, amongst many others.
Life
In 1195 he had been granted the Manor of Thurrock in Essex which later became known as Grays Thurrock (or simply Grays), which he bought from Isaac the Jew and his son Josce. To commemorate this connection, on 11 June 2013 (the 808th anniversary of the charter), a green Thurrock heritage plaque was unveiled to de Grey.[1] Before 1201 he was also granted the Manor of Codnor, Derbyshire, and in 1216 was also granted by King Henry III of England the Manor of Grimston in Nottinghamshire.
Marriage and issue
Around 1199 he married at Thurrock, Essex, Isolda Bardolf (Hoo, Kent, c. 1168 - bef. 18 June 1246), also known as Iseaude, sister and co-heiress of Robert Bardolf of Codnor in Derbyshire, and daughter of Hugh or Robert Bardolf of Codnor, Derbyshire (son of Hugo Bardol, born in 1125), and Isobel Aquillion, by whom he had these sons:
Sir Richard de Grey of Codnor Derbyshire, ancestor of the Barons Grey of Codnor Sir John de Grey of Shirland Derbyshire, ancestor of the Barons Grey of Wilton and Barons Grey of Ruthyn,[2] and through the Ruthyn Greys he was ancestor of John Grey of Groby, the first husband of Elizabeth Woodville, who later married Edward IV. In this connection, Sir John was the ancestor of the Viscounts Lisle, the Grey Marquesses of Dorset and of Lady Jane Grey. It is from Sir John's descendants the Greys of Wilton that Gray's Inn takes its name. William de Grey of Cavendish, Suffolk, of Landford, Nottinghamshire and of Sandiacre, Derbyshire, ancestor of the Greys of Merton, Norfolk and a remote ancestor of the Barons Walsingham Henry de Grey Hugh de Grey (born Chillingham, Northumberland, c. 1203), father of John de Grey, born in Scotland, and grandfather of Thomas de Grey of Heton (Heton, Northumberland, circa 1266 - Angus, Scotland, 1310), whose son Sir Thomas de Grey of Heaton (circa 1297 - bef. 12 March 1343/1344) was taken prisoner by the Scots at Bannockburn and who was the ancestor of all three creations of the Earls of Tankerville, and the Earls Grey [FALSE LINES] Robert de Grey, ancestor of the Barons Grey of Rotherfield - FALSE, he was the son of *Hawise* de Grey and brother of Walter the Archbishop of York. Walter de Grey, Archbishop of York 1216-1255 - FALSE, he was the son of *Hawise* de www.celtic-casimir.com
Henry DE GREY Lord of Codnor Born: 1176, Thurrock Grey, Essex, England Married: 1199, Thurrock, Essex, England Died: 1219, Codnor, Basford, Derbyshire, England
General Notes: Henry de Grey; bought the Manor of Thurrock, Essex (later called Thurrock Grey) from Isaac the Jew and his son Josce; held the Manor of Codnor, Derbys by 1201; granted by Henry III 1216 the Manor of Grimston, Notts. [Burke's Peerage]
In the 6th year of King Richard I, that monarch conferred the manor of Thurrock, co. Essex (afterwards called Thurrock Grey), upon Henry de Grey, which grant was confirmed by King John, who vouchsafed, by special charter, to permit the said Henry de Grey to hunt the hare and fox in any land belonging to the crown, save the king's own demesne-parks. In the 1st Henry III, he had also a grant of the manor of Grimston, co. Nottingham, and having afterwards m. Isolda, niece and heiress of Robert Bardolf, shared in the inheritance of his lands. By this lady Henry de Grey had issue, Richard, John, William, Robert, Walter, and Henry. [Sir Bernard Burke, Dormant, Abeyant, Forfeited and Extinct Peerages, Burke's Peerage, Ltd., London, England,
Marriage Information: Henry married Isolda BARDOLF, daughter of Sir Hugh BARDOLF Lord of Waddington and Isabel DE CONDET Heir of South Carlton, in 1199 in Thurrock, Essex, England . (Isolda BARDOLF was born about 1176 in Great Carlton, Louth, Lincolnshire, England and died on 18 Jun 1246 in Codnor, Basford, Derbyshire, England.)
www.findagrave.com
Sir Henry de Grey BIRTH 1155 Thurrock Unitary Authority, Essex, England DEATH 1219 (aged 63–64) Thurrock Unitary Authority, Essex, England BURIAL St Peter and St Paul Churchyard Grays, Thurrock Unitary Authority, Essex, England MEMORIAL ID 171946833
Sir Henry was the son of John de Grey (born Thurrock, Essex, c. 1140 and married c. 1157) and probably a great-grandson of Anchetil de Greye of Rotherfield Greys, a grandson of Domesday baron Anchetil de Greye (c. 1052 – 1086+). Sir Henry de Grey of Grays Thurrock, Essex (1155–1219), was a favourite courtier of King John of England. In 1195 he had been granted the Manor of Thurrock in Essex which later became known as Grays Thurrock (or simply Grays), which he bought from Isaac the Jew and his son Josce. To commemorate this connection, on 11 June 2013 (the 808th anniversary of the charter), a green Thurrock heritage plaque was unveiled to de Grey. Before 1201 he was also granted the Manor of Codnor, Derbyshire, and in 1216 was also granted by King Henry III of England the Manor of …
Family Members Parents John De Gray unknown–1214 Hawise de Grey unknown–1225
Spouse Isolda Iseaude Bardolph de Grey 1168–1246
Children Richard de Gray 1195–1271 Hugh de Grey 1203–1230 John De Grey Grey, q.v. unknown de Grey, father of Eve de Grey who married Walter Beke of Eresby Lincolnshire and was ancestor of the Barons Willoughby de Eresby - FALSE, s/he was a brother or sister of Walter and Robert. After his death his widow remarried Reynold de Meurdre.
Sir Henry de Grey av Codnor og av Grays Thurrock, Baron
Stamfar for utallige medlemmer av det britiske aristokratiet og for et betydelig antall personer av adelen som bruker navnet Grey
Stod høyt i kurs hos kong Richard I av England (Richard Løvehjerte) og kong Johan I av England (Johan uten land)
Henry ble utnevnt til baron etter å ha tjent Rikhard I på et korstog i utlandet, Han var en veldig rik og mektig baron
http://www.codnorcastle.co.uk/history.html
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